Forgiveness is the willingness to let go of being ‘right.’  It is the willingness to see the other person/situation with the eyes of love rather than judgment.  It is letting go of a superimposed standard of how to behave…..speak…..appear. 


Forgiveness is allowance of all things.  It is the re-training of the mind to see thru eyes of love.  Judgment is the demand to show up a certain way.  It feels harsh/hard.


Forgiveness is the decision to let go of judgment.  It is the decision to let go of beliefs that appear absolutely ‘right and wrong.’  There is no choice with judgment.


Forgiveness is the conscious choice for love.  ” I choose to see you with compassion.”


Superficial forgiveness rests in the belief that someone is right and someone is wrong.  In this, the one who ‘forgives’ appears magnanimous.  “You have done something wrong, but I will be the bigger person and forgive you.”  The forgiver is ‘better than’ the forgiven who is ‘less than.’  Clearly, there is no forgiving going on here.


True forgiveness….radical or quantum forgiveness….is the realization that there is only one who can ‘bestow’ forgiveness and only one who ‘needs’ forgiveness and that one is me.  I am the forgiver and the forgiven. 




As we move out of the illusive paradigm of right and wrong and move into Oneness, we realize that there is nothing to forgive.  No one has done anything to anyone because there is no one ‘here’ but me.  There is only the One, and I AM THAT.  It is all God.  We are all God.  In this place, there is only Love.  This is what we are being asked to do at this time.  We are being asked to Re-member who we are and to live into deep connection with all Life.  We are One. 


Forgive all, for in the end it is YOU you are forgiving.